You’re Willing To Make Sacrifices
There’s no denying that having a baby comes with making sacrifices. You’ll be sacrificing your sleep - be prepared to feel exhausted for the next 18 years. You’ll also need to sacrifice money and a few of the luxuries you have enjoyed thus far if you don’t have an unlimited budget. Babies are expensive, and get even more expensive as they grow up!
You’re Doing It For The Right Reasons
There are right reasons to have a baby, and questionable reasons to have a baby. A baby doesn’t keep a relationship or a marriage together. Don’t bring a baby into the mix if you and your partner aren't happy. Things will become even more challenging. You know deep in your heart whether you’re doing this for the right reasons or not.
You Have The Capacity To Love
A child needs unlimited amounts of love, so you need to make sure you have the capacity to accept their love and offer all you have to them. Kids that don’t feel loved grow up to have issues, to say the least. Loving yourself is an extremely important factor too. Your child will learn how to love from you, and you can bet they’ll learn to feel the same way about themselves as you do about yourself. Perhaps you know you have the capacity to love, but you want to give that love to a child that is already here and hasn’t experienced much of it. You can visit FundYourAdoption.org for details and get an idea of whether doing this is a good fit for you. Sometimes, giving a child like this a better life is one of the most rewarding things you can do.
You Know How To Take Care Of Yourself
You need to be able to take good care of yourself before you become a parent. You’ll have yourself and another little person to take care of when you have a baby, and it’ll go on day after day after day. You won’t get a break!
You And Your Partner Have Discussed it At Length
You need to make sure your partner is on the same page as you. You might be ready, but if they’re not, you can expect problems. Don’t just expect them to come around once you’re pregnant!
You Get Broody And Envious When Other Friends Have Babies
It’s normal to feel broody sometimes, but if you find yourself feeling like this more often than not, you might just be ready for your own.
Lots to pay attention to as a first parentReplyDelete