A Loving Home
It’ll hopefully come as no surprise that children need a safe, loving space in which to grow. If you bring the love, you’ll see them jump from one small accomplishment to the next. Children who grow up in homes where love is thin on the ground develop a whole host of issues that stick with them throughout their life. So a happy, loving home is essential - children can manage without the latest computers and things, but they can’t manage without warm and positive emotions.
Time in the Outdoors
There was a time, not so long ago, when parents were wrapping their children up in cotton wool. They thought that the outdoors was a cold and dangerous place. This is not the case! For starters, the world is safer than it’s ever been (people seem to incorrectly believe the opposite is true). Time spent in the outdoors, and especially in nature, is critical for a child’s development. It benefits them in ways that even scientists don’t fully understand; they just know that it’s necessary. In any case, it’s where humans belong. Get them outdoors early, and they’ll always relish what nature gives to them.
Freedom To Be Themselves
The world is full of rules. You know that, and your child will come to realize it when they get older. But they don’t need to live under the shadow of ALL the rules at an early age. Let them be free to find their own way in the world - it’ll be a good buffer to the world when they’re older, when it’s the people who can think a little differently from the others who are most valued. Plus, you only get to be a child once. Let them enjoy it.
A Confident Attitude
Confidence is a brittle thing, isn’t it? Enough adults have problems maintaining a confident attitude. Fortunately, it’s slightly easier to give a child a confident outlook on life. They’re not subjected to the same pressures that we adults are subjected to! Of course, there’s such a thing as a child being TOO confident, so it’s important to get the balance right. Give them praise where it’s due, criticism (constructive) when its merited, and don’t let them ever think that they don’t matter. It’ll help them be secure in themselves.
Help When It’s Needed
Everyone knows that adults have issues that can knock their confidence. Well, the same applies to children. And their issues don’t just affect their confidence; they can affect the quality of their beginnings in life. If they’re having trouble talking, for example, then they may find they’re falling behind their friends when it comes to development. The good news is that whatever issues they’re suffering from, there will be help available. If they’re not talking as they should be, then you can always search for ‘speech therapists near me,’ and work with an expert. There’s no reason for your child to struggle with an issue on their own when there’s help available.
Teammates and Friends
No-one goes through life on their own. People who think they’ve built a successful life all on their own are usually wrong. Plenty of people will have helped them along the way! It’s best to learn this early. There’s normally a noticeable difference in attitude to teamwork between people who played team sports as a child and those who didn’t. As such, one of the best gifts you can give your son or daughter is to enrol them in a team sport. It doesn’t matter so much what the sport is, so long as it involves everyone pulling together for a common cause. It’s an excellent attribute that’ll serve them well in life.
A Positive Role Model
Children pick up much more from their adults than parents realize, or in some cases, want. It’s not enough just to tell your child the right way to conduct themselves; you need to show them, too. Most communication is nonverbal, after all. The best way to ensure your child grows up to be the best version of themselves is to be the best version of yourself! If you’re letting your bad habits creep in when you’re around your child, you can be too disappointed or surprised if they pick them up too. It’s worthwhile looking at ways to improve yourself. In so doing, you’ll be improving your children.
The Essentials in Life
Some of the most important things in life, for children at least, are barely mentioned when it comes to understanding what they need. They’re just assumed to be self-evident, so they’re not worth mentioning. Take consistency. Experts have shown that it’s one of the most important aspects of a child’s development. Without it, children are much less likely to take on board the messages and lessons of their parents. So develop a routine, whatever it is. So long as your child knows what to expect - and it’s good - then they’ll be on the right path.
A Creative Outlet
Everyone’s creative. Every single human being. The issue is that most people don’t have an outlet for their creativity. Children should have free reign to do what they please with their vivid imaginations. Musical instruments, crayons, dance shows, and so on should all be regular fixtures in your home. Creativity will always serve a person well. It’s something that has merit on its own; it doesn’t matter if it’s shared with anyone or leads anywhere!
Encouragement and Support
Some people have their own views and their own ideas about what they’d like to do with their lives, but the problem is that they don’t receive any encouragement. So as a result, they keep them buried deep down. It takes a confident person to push through the doubts and follow their dreams without the support of others. If you develop a system of encouragement and support with your son or daughter early on, you’ll be creating a framework that allows them to follow their dreams. And who knows what kind of journey that might take them on as they grow up?
An Optimistic Outlook
Life is all about attitude. If you think that the world is a cruel, hostile place, then that’s the world you’re going to find. If you think it’s a flawed but inherently beautiful world, then that’s what you’ll find. It’s not hard to see that it’s better to have the second attitude! Regardless of your own views of the world, make sure your children are seeing the world in the right way. The older you get, the more you discover that it’s the people with the positive outlook on life who usually mold the world in their creation.
As we said at the beginning of the article, it’s not easy being a parent! But it is worth it. Give your child the best possible start in life, and you’ll be giving them the tools to the best, more brilliant version of themselves.
I think too most of all, kids need your attention even as they become independent. It applies to kids of all ages, even adult children. All the money and things in the world cant make up for time spent withyou.ReplyDelete
Love is the answer...ReplyDelete
I'm very big on getting kids outdoors. Plant a garden, go on a hike.ReplyDelete
Being optimistic is a good starting place but kids do need to learn to be careful and not too trusting as well.ReplyDelete
A great list but the danger of lists is that for many families there will be items that they can't quite meet even though they aspire to. No families should be allowed to feel they are failures because they can't tick all the boxes on a list.ReplyDelete